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The GenXpat Library

Try a season before you sell the house.

Practical tools for Gen Xers figuring out whether, how and when to live abroad, part-time or for good.

A couple in their sixties carrying groceries up a sunlit Greek island laneSEASON ONE · GENXPAT LIFE · 2026 ·01

Why we exist

Turns out the second half doesn’t come with a manual. So we’re writing one.

Five stages · No wrong starting point

Go from wondering to we’re going!

  1. WONDER · GENXPAT LIFE ·01

    Wonder

    “Is this even a real option for us?”

    8 unexpected benefits of living abroadFREE
  2. DECIDE · GENXPAT LIFE ·02

    Decide

    “Should we, and what would we give up?”

    The ‘Should We?’ decision worksheetFREE
  3. TEST-DRIVE · GENXPAT LIFE ·03

    Test-drive

    “How do we try it without burning the boats?”

    Test-drive a new city: the 2-week checklistFREE
  4. PLAN · GENXPAT LIFE ·04

    Plan

    “What has to happen before 90 days away?”

    The 90-Day Overseas Planner
  5. GO · GENXPAT LIFE ·05

    Go

    “What about the house, the mail, the meds?”

    The leave-home checklistFREE

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A man and woman planning a trip over a map at a sunlit Lisbon café table

A little room to imagine

Plan it together.

A different address doesn’t have to mean a permanent decision. Try the ordinary days first: the groceries, the café you return to, the walk home. Then compare notes with the person you’d go with.

Try a season first

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This is where we’d look.

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Pairs with stage 02 · Decide

The world’s best places to retire in 2026

IL’s free Global Retirement Index report. A starting point for your shortlist, not your final answer.

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Pairs with stage 04 · Plan

European Living: free chapter

How Americans stay in Europe longer than 90 days. Check official sources for your situation.

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Pairs with stage 03 · Test-drive

IL country reports & Insider

On-the-ground briefings for the towns on your shortlist. [IL OFFER PRICE]

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